The Final Wake Up Call: Africans, You are on Your Own pt3

By Sicebise Msengana

As Dr. Amos Wilson once mentioned ‘The ruling of our people world over has to be bought with FALSE INDIVIDUALISM AND SEPARATING us from our African identity as people.’ That’s the process. First, separation of Africans from their African identity and giving
them false identities.

African Erotica: Chocolate Fantasy

By Sicebise Msengana

ROMANCE in the African context is one that is ignored by various scholars and researchers. But Africans have been falling in love for thousands of years. Love-making was and still is essential to the survival of our race. Our ancestors in ancient Egypt and Nubia, had been the creators and mothers of African civilisations and it was vital for them to know about this knowledge.

6 Ways Fear Prevents Us From Enjoying a Healthy Relationship

By Sicebise Msengana

One of the reasons why relationships are falling apart has to do with insecurities. Reason being that, some of us are very shallow men, and look for nothing more than a beautiful face and a big booty.

Weekend Inspiration

By Sicebise Msengana

1. Life is like a camera. Just focus on what’s important, capture the good times, develop from the negatives, and if things don’t turn out – take another shot. — Unknown

How to Get and Keep a Black Guy

By Sicebise Msengana

Are you a white woman or a non-African female struggling to find a black guy? Do you wish you could date or even marry a black dude?

What if I told you that you could solve all of your life’s problems and live a life full of love and sexual freedom while being “possessed” by a strong, loving black man?

Signs That She is Cheating on You

By Sicebise Msengana

DISCLAIMER: I’m not an expert in relationship (or marriage) stuff. But I have dated women longer enough to figure out what the heck is on women’s minds. The best thing to do would probably be seeing a marriage/relationship counsellor.