Love, Money, and the Value of Effort

By Sicebise Msengana 

In many cultures, especially where poverty is widespread, parents often see their daughters as a means of financial security rather than individuals who should seek love, happiness, and long-term fulfillment. This mindset leads many families to encourage their daughters to marry wealthy men, even if those men lack the character, morals, or emotional stability necessary for a healthy relationship.

White Weddings VS African Traditional Weddings

Sicebise Msengana

Selfhate is a mental disease. Because black people tend to forget that "white" weddings are traditional European weddings. You are simply undermining your own culture and practicing another people's culture. Alienated people have alien appetites. 

White Jesus and Black Devil: Mental Enslavement of Africans

Sicebise Msengana

Jesus is white and whiteness is associated with godliness and divinity. But Satan is black and darkness is associated with evil and occultism. I have said before the Bible is one piece of propaganda used to enslave Africans psychologically, physically, socially and mentally. Christianity was used by its creators to promote white supremacy and black inferiority. We learn from the book of Genesis, Noah cursed his son, Ham' descendants who later became Africans. Europeans and Arabs used the doctrine of the "Curse of Ham" to justify chattel slavery and colonisation of the African continent. 

Because it was believed that black people were cursed. Again, in the book of Exodus, the God of Moses defeated the gods of Africa in Egypt. At that time ancient Egypt was the most powerful empire in the world, but fall to the gods of Caucasians of the Middle East. 

Polygamy is Group Economics and Social Order

Sicebise Msengana

Polygamous men are the biggest philanthropists in society because they distribute or share their resources and wealth with multiple wives. Ensuring that women and their children are looking after. 

The average man neglects his bank account and wastes his money on noncommittal, monogamous relationships with many women until he finds a wife. After that he is locked into a marriage where he is forced to hoard his wealth for only one woman, not distribute it to as many women as possible.

Let's face reality: Not every woman will get a job. Not every woman will be empowered. Not every woman will be educated. Not every woman will be rich. But every woman will have a problem trying to get a husband under monogamy. Because of the ratio of men to women.   Therefore, monogamy is very wasteful and expensive!

Umfazi wesiNTU

Sicebise Msengana

Ibhinqa elikwazi ubasa phantsi lisile utywala besiNTU, linempawo zobufazi. Ufanelwe nguNtsiki qha qwaba ❤️❤️❤️

Stop Constantly Trying To Be Happy

Sicebise msengana

In life, we come across people who are always positive and friendly. I know a few people who seemed to have it figured out in life. They were saints. Always praying. Always believing. Showered you with compliments and endless love. Sometimes their warm demeanour actually becomes irritating at times. "How do you do it?" You think to yourself. 

Cheap Black Labour is Dividing Africans Globally

I have heard some remarks from Africans from West Africa, saying that "South Africans and African Americans are 'lazy' and don't want to 'work.' And all we do is to complain and expect free things." I mean, if those people who make those comments are hardworking, then why are they immigrants and always seeking to escape their countries? What do they have to show for perceived hardworking traits inherent in them? Why are their countries poverty stricken, desolate, war-torn, desert like despite being hard-workers?

Life is Fleeting and Death Happens

Life is fleeting. All philosophies in the world amount to nothing if we cannot recognize that. Life is fragile. Which makes it even more sensible to cherish the only life we know. Life is ends. We are all going to grow old and die. Not fair that death doesn't respect old, young, rich, poor, free men, slaves, white or black. What truly matters is not that you will die some day. Life doesn't have to be endless (eternity) to be worth anything. What matters is here and now we are alive. You made the most out of the life you had. You lived with happiness and purpose. Isn't that enough? What happens afterwards doesn't matter.

Normalize Polygamy

Sicebise Msengana

Xhosa men ( black men), you're the prize. The world is your oyster. Normalize taking multiple wives. The less fucks you give, the less people have control over your life. Fuck what other people think about POLYGAMY. Fuck the rules of a monogamous society. Be okay with societal disapproval.

 Focus on your own path. Invest in yourself. Restore the black family, build generational wealth, acquire land and properties for your wives and children.

POLYGAMY: Isithembu

By Sicebise Msengana

Polygamy is the best form of marriage