Polygamy is Group Economics and Social Order

Sicebise Msengana

Polygamous men are the biggest philanthropists in society because they distribute or share their resources and wealth with multiple wives. Ensuring that women and their children are looking after. 

The average man neglects his bank account and wastes his money on noncommittal, monogamous relationships with many women until he finds a wife. After that he is locked into a marriage where he is forced to hoard his wealth for only one woman, not distribute it to as many women as possible.

Let's face reality: Not every woman will get a job. Not every woman will be empowered. Not every woman will be educated. Not every woman will be rich. But every woman will have a problem trying to get a husband under monogamy. Because of the ratio of men to women.   Therefore, monogamy is very wasteful and expensive!

POSITIVE POLYGYNY/POLYGAMY AND ITS BENEFITS TO SOCIETY

By Sicebise Msengana

Who convinced us that polygamy is problematic than monogamy?

POLYGYNY is less dramatic, less divorce rate, little to no single mothers in such communities, eliminates competition between women, division of labor to reduce stress, no children born out of wedlock, far less cheating on the part of the man. Most importantly, it's not about a man having many wives, but every woman having a husband and therefore, reduces the excess number of single women who will otherwise never find a husband.

Positive Polygyny

By Sicebise Msengana

 AREAL MAN oozes CONFIDENCE & WALKS IN HIS TRUE NATURE. Unbothered by what others think. He doesn't care about what you think of him. A true alpha male understands female biology and psychology. Monogamy is the leading cause of GENDER BASED violence. When a man invests his money, love & resources in a relationship and a woman doesn't reciprocate; a man becomes violent, abusive and aggressive. But a POLYGAMOUS man's love, wealth & resources don't revolve around obsessing over one woman. Because a POLYGAMOUS man is confident of himself, and a nonconformist to society's expectations. #polygamy #polygyny

POSITIVE POLYGAMY AND MASCULINITY

By Sicebise Msengana

African men, why marry one wife when it's a man's nature to be POLYGAMOUS? In nature, alpha males breed with as many females as possible to spread their genes, provide and protect females in their group. Polygamous men don't control and abuse women because they have many options. Their resources and lives don't revolve around obsessing over one woman. A POLYGAMOUS man is a philanthropist who distributes wealth among women in his harem to help the most vulnerable in society. Women also get to elevate above competitive jealousy, emulate each other and benefit from a committed husband. 

AFRICAN CENTERED MARRIAGES: Polygyny

By Sicebise Msengana

A wise woman chooses to be one of the multiple wives of a good, polygamous man than a wife of an evil monogamous man 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌.

Power to Jacob Zuma ✊✊✊ #polygyny #polygamy