I've heard guys say things like "I can't show her too early how much I love her. She might manipulate my weaknesses." To a great extent, it is true. Some women have a very warped
mindset. They're after a guy who has money, a nice car, a luxurious house and can afford to take her out at expensive Italian restaurants and pamper her with countless gifts.
Some women just want a sex object to play dirty with all night long. They call you for a booty call and there "was never us" and there will never be "us."
But some intelligent women understand that love has nothing to do with what the person has materially and physically.
Sometimes a girl just wants the "real" you. She is not after your money or car. The basic principles of loving (falling in love) someone comes from personality traits like confidence, loyalty and honest and thus, bonus points in relationships are:
1. Strength
2. Attractiveness
3. Money
Given that life is about growth and change.
I've been trying to change for the past three years in order to attract beautiful, intelligent women in my life, however, African booties in tight dresses stand in my way (laughs).
But I have learnt to be ACCOUNTABLE and build a woman's trust. People are made to be loved, not used. We are in no position to intimidate or cower someone into a relationship.
Fear and intimidation makes people afraid of one another. It creates walls and suspicions. People in toxic relationships withdraw and retreat from others.
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