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Showing posts with label Love and relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love and relationships. Show all posts
13 August 2021

Be African and Proud

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By Sicebise Msengana I always see the self-hating attitudes towards Africa as coping mechanisms against the 500 year-old racist ...
13 December 2017

READING LIST 2017

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By Sicebise Msengana It's that time again, where I get to read books until 3 a.m in the morning. Every year I make my book reco...
02 August 2017

Black Love is REVOLUTIONARY!

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By Sicebise Msengana A Xhosa couple.  BLACK LOVE is REVOLUTIONARY. There's no BLACK POWER/ UNITY/PRIDE wit...
04 July 2017

The Universe Owes us Nothing Except For the Gift of Life and Luck

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By Sicebise Msengana Do you struggle to find meaning in life? Are you feeling powerless and at the mercy of circum...
08 April 2017

White Scams Part 4: DEADLY GAMES

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By Sicebise Msengana Hey Becky watch your filthy mouth about Black women! When Black men lack self-control & are throughly b...
24 March 2017

Don't Take Things Personally

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By Sicebise Msengana "Don't take every rejection or break up personally. Get over it and don't let it define who you ...
14 March 2017

Anti-African Manhood Racism in Black America Part 1

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By Sicebise Msengana Okay, we get you hate Black men. There's no need to lump us all with inferior minded Black men.  There...
07 March 2017

African Manhood Part III: Xhosa Men

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By Sicebise Msengana Sacrifice is part of Afrikan manhood. We sacrifice ourselves for those we love.  Afrikan men practice love...
30 January 2017

2 Ways Individualism and Exceptionalism Kills the Black Revolution: Should Black Men Date out?

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By Sicebise Msengana I don’t know whether we African men should date or sleep with white women or not ( i.e. Non-African f...
25 January 2017

This is How You Lose Her

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By Sicebise Msengana I've heard guys say things like "I can't show her too early how much I love her. She m...
24 January 2017

African erotica: BabyMaking Music

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By Sicebise Msengana I wanted to make this article race neutral and non-political as possible as I can, however,  I couldn’t h...
22 January 2017

African Erotica: Chocolate Fantasy

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By Sicebise Msengana ROMANCE in the African context is one that is ignored by various scholars and researchers. But Africans h...
16 January 2017

6 Ways Fear Prevents Us From Enjoying a Healthy Relationship

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By Sicebise Msengana One of the reasons why relationships are falling apart has to do with insecurities. Reason being that, so...
15 January 2017

Weekend Inspiration

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By Sicebise Msengana 1. Life is like a camera. Just focus on what’s important, capture the good times, develop from the negativ...
14 January 2017

How to Get and Keep a Black Guy

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By Sicebise Msengana Are you a white woman or a non-African female struggling to find a black guy? Do you wish you could date...
12 January 2017

Signs That She is Cheating on You

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By Sicebise Msengana DISCLAIMER : I’m not an expert in relationship (or marriage) stuff. But I have dated women longer enough...
31 December 2016

How to Start a Religion in 12 Easy Ways

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By Sicebise Msengana Are you constantly stressed out and broke as an African? Do you want to enjoy life and take full advantage o...
23 December 2016

African Manhood pt2

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By Sicebise Msengana African manhood: The family unit is ESSENTIAL to the black man’s DIGNITY. African men rarely talk about ...

The Most Critical Question of Your Life

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By Sicebise Msengana If  there is no struggle, there is no progress —Frederick Douglass Sometimes you will find people saying “I...
21 December 2016

Rejection: It's Only a Minority

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By Sicebise Msengana Do you get that feeling like the whole world has abandoned you and you're all alone? How does it feel? T...