By Sicebise Msengana
The goal of dating is to see if you are compatible and share commonalities like same values, interests, tastes, and get appreciation, respect, satisfaction, romance and happiness for long-term. This also involves listening and communicating with each other.
Then intimacy follows. Sharing your secret sexual cravings with a special partner can increase trust and intimacy. It is a special, private piece of who you are that you are giving to someone else.When a woman bears her body to a man, and they become intimate he will enjoy learning how to satisfy her and stimulate her in ways that are most satisfactory to her. Touching, caressing, and general physical contact while kissing to connect and bond, or to arouse and seduce increases her pleasure. She will enjoy experiencing this physical and emotional pleasure with him and want to give him more. The problem arises in society when we mix relationships with materialism and unrealistic expectations. "Indoda must" or "woman should act in a certain way" mantras, and reality television standards have destroyed a lot of seemingly good relationships and hurt people in the process. Money can be a tool to give you and your partner great and memorable experiences. But it can never buy love nor intimacy. It also won't bring you closer if you are drifting apart. But society keeps telling men to save the fucking world by throwing money at women. Only then will women fawn over their heroic and noble acts and finally let men see them naked.
Expecting your man or woman to be a pornstar in bed will erode your relationship with time. No normal human being can compete with a pornstar. When both the hedonic treadmill kicks in, and the conditions of sex are no longer met, you will start to resent them and wish to cheat on them with other people who will bring you to "nirvana" or give you that "high."
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